The Christian Right Wants You to Die In Agony

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Previously, I put up an article about how we can help end suffering/the life for our loved pets when they are suffering from medical issues that cannot be cured or they have become so debilitated that they can no longer walk, cannot take adequate nutrition, handle going to the bathroom, etc., but cannot do the same for our humans.  I did not write that article but I agreed with it.  The fact that we are not allowed to give our human loved ones the same respectful end of suffering that we are able to choose for our animal loves is quite disrespectful, sad, and yes, could be viewed as cruel. I will revisit this idea/concept.

I do not know if any of you have been involved in the services of a hospice.  If you have, I am sorry for your loss and for the anguish you have felt when being involved in the decision to have your person go into hospice.

A facility that is labeled as hospice is where a person goes to die.  There is no other way to label this. You will have a doctor at the hospice facility and that person plus your regular physician will have to agree that you have less than six months to live.  Other members of the hospice team are the person who is in need of hospice and his or her family, nurses or nurse practitioners, social workers, councilors, physical and occupational therapists, speech or language pathologists, pharmacists, hospital aides, homemakers, and volunteers, those who know the family or those who just want to help a stranger.

Hospice care can be delivered in your home or in a facility.  The Medicare rule for receiving hospice is a life expectancy of 6 months or less (if you live longer, you can still receive hospice care if a hospice doctor or director certifies that you are terminally ill).  You can receive hospice care for two 90-day benefit periods, and if more time is needed for you to die, that amount of time can be followed by 60-day benefit periods. If you do not care for your hospice provider, you are allowed to change one time during the benefit period.  You will be recertified as terminally ill after you have reached the end of the first 90-day period.

Of course, if you are deemed to not be terminally ill, first of all that would make you very, very lucky, and secondly you can stop hospice care at any time.  You can also stop hospice care if you no longer want to be there. If you wish to reenter hospice care, you can do so at a later time.

What is hospice care?  There are varying levels.  I am going to discuss the “voluntary stop eating and drinking” or VSED.  The United States Supreme Court has recognized a person’s choice for VSED as a   legal right. A person can refuse medical treatment, therapies and this includes fluids and food. The choice for VSED is to refuse all food and liquids by mouth or feeding tube.  People choose this manner of hastening death because they think that dying will not be prolonged.

What are the preparations for VSED? If this way of dying is your choice, you will talk with your doctor about your plans. Then there might be the arrangement for medications to keep you comfortable.  I am not clear on how feeling extreme thirst and hunger can be eliminated.  You will have to complete an Advance Directive which states that you have voluntarily given up eating and taking fluids along with withholding all life-sustaining therapies and any efforts for resuscitation if your heart stops or you are unable to breath on your own, or both.

Then you may find someone to help you in your end of life endeavor. This could be difficult as many believe withholding fluids and food are barbaric practices.  If the illness/disease you have is not likely to kill you within six months, you will probably be subjected to a psychological exam to ensure that you are of sound mind and not just depressed about your illness/suffering.  Then saying good bye and getting your affairs in order would probably be on your list of last items to do.

People who stop eating and drinking usually die within 10 days, but some can take weeks to die.  If a person is already quite physically debilitated, the process can take less than 10 days.  No guarantees as to how long this process will take.

Now we come to the pain, discomfort, etc. of lack of liquids and food for the body.  Those who are already in a great deal of pain, let’s say, due to bone pain from metastatic cancer, will be on large doses of pain medication which will likely cause unconsciousness.  The sensation of being thirsty, which is something your body does to keep you hydrated, can be quite powerful.   Whether you receive palliative sedation is up to your physician.


The point I am trying to drive home here is that why must humans go through all of these physical, mental, and emotional hoops if he or she is ready to stop fighting his or her disease and its eventual dire consequences? If you really are finished with and want to throw off your mortal coil since it is not treating you well, then you should be able to accomplish that without going through the motions I have described above.  You should not have to starve yourself to death.  You should not need to go into an electrolyte hell that lack of potassium will provide. You do not need to face extreme dehydration. This is my opinion. You can disagree with me but please do not cite that to end your life is not God’s will.  You could also wonder why God would let you get sick with some noncureable malady in the first place.

Back to the focus here.  You will only be allowed to pursue VSED if you hide away, or if you have signed an Advance Directive, and/or are under some sort of medical care while remaining at home or in a care center, such as a hospice facility. You should not have to wait days, even weeks to die when you are in pain, the grips of nausea, cannot care for yourself, etc. and have no hope of these symptoms going away, of getting back to okay.

Generally, VSED is not available to a person with dementia or Alzheimer’s.  To decide to use VSED, one must be deemed capable of making decisions and mentally competent.  If you have an advanced directive that prevents medical intervention or extreme measures, this includes food and liquids, then you can be placed on VSED, even if you have Alzheimer’s or dementia because at the time you signed that directive, you were considered of sound mind.

As is so often the case, someone with dementia or Alzheimer’s, who has moved to an assisted living facility, or is being cared for outside the home, will have a fall, due to confusion, maybe even lack of supervision, and will break a hip. This leads to surgery to repair the hip and depending on the level of Alzheimer’s disease before the surgery, can have a bad outcome since the person may never be able to be fully conscious, and to understand why he or she is in so much pain. This could also happen with other types of surgery, such as for a bowel obstruction, not uncommon in those with Alzheimer’s.

The end medical scenario can be a person, who is loved and is no longer recognizable as the person he or she was before dementia/Alzheimer’s, the broken hip, and will become unable to come back to the mental level he or she had before surgery.  Whenever these types of patients are allowed to awaken from anesthetic, they have so much pain that they are unable to be left without restraints, scream, cry, cannot advance toward a situation for rehabilitation, and are thus kept heavily sedated.  They cannot comprehend or understand what is going on around them, what is happening to their body, why they are in so much pain.  Now we have a scenario that moves this person toward a hospice situation.  He or she cannot be rehabilitated to use that hip for walking as there can be no cooperation from a person who only feels pain and does not understand how to participate in future care.

With an Advance Directive, this person can be placed in hospice with VSED. Now we have a heavily sedated person who is not being given fluids, no IVs, no food, no feeding tube, nothing.  The family hopes for there to be a physical reason, such as bleeding in the brain from a possible head banging against the floor or a piece of furniture during the fall.  Maybe more tests will be done, maybe there will be a second and third opinion.  The medical side says that “Nothing” can be done to get your previous person back.  There is no hope of a good outcome.

Now your human loved one is not given fluids, IVs, food, tube feedings.  He or she is supposedly so sedated that he or she does not feel pain, thirst, hunger.  Knows nothing.  Feels nothing. Do we, on the outside of that body, know this is the case?  And then the wait begins……minutes, hours, days, perhaps weeks.  The family’s grieving process will probably begin when your person is still alive.

Finally, to the purpose of writing these words……If this was your pet, you could make the decision at the beginning of the “not going to get better and is suffering” process and your vet can give the injection that will stop the heart.  I have been there, very sadly on more than one occasion After the injection there is nothing but immediate relaxation as the heart stops beating and any pain, feeling sick, anxiousness, etc. is stopped.  No starving, no withholding fluids, no sedation for days while the end inexorably arrives.

I was there for the last tortuous breaths of my father who did not choose VSED, but chose to fight it out, I suppose because he liked his life and wanted to hang around a bit longer because he had just survived teaching his daughter how to drive a stick shift automobile and life would certainly be uphill from that point onward. He had hope that he might beat lung cancer, but that was not to be. Not in his cards. There is no comparison to the end of my Dad’s life and those of my pets. My Dad suffered until his last breath. The end of life process, outside of scenarios depicted on TV shows, is not quiet, over in a few moments. We do not know that the person who is dying, even though apparently comatose, is not hearing, thinking, horrified at what is happening to him or her.  How can euthanasia be acceptable for our pets and not okay for our beloved human? How is withholding fluids and food or causing someone to refuse fluids and food, in order to hasten death, not cruel and unusual punishment? Death is a cruel but inevitable fate for all of us.  Death that comes early due to illnesses/diseases is just plain wrong.  We simply have to be more real in dealing with the end of life……Carol


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15 COMMENTS

  1. John Henry asked for a cool drink of water before he died. I’ll be working til the day I die and hope I’ll have someone there to send me off in the same way. A cool drink of water.

  2. I think this heading is misleading. There are lots of nonreligious left who don’t like the idea about accelerated death, like my father for example. He has cancer but thanks to advanced medicines he’s still alive. Most likely that medicin was first tested with rats, then with apes and now my father, and it seems to be working.

    Health care is always developing science and any patient is a test person as well among rats and apes. The World is not completed, only catholich and atheists says so, because of Popes status from both sides. Jesus on the other hand one day walked into a grave and said, Lazarus, wake up and walk. And Lazarus woke up from death. Thenafter Jesus was beaten and Crucified and God woke Him up from death. People saying He suffered so, that I don’t have to. Because You don’t want to. Pope or local baptist Archbishop is much easier to serve than Jesus, because Pope likes submission but Jesus is priority.

  3. Khalid, that’s the way it is I think, when ego has died the spirit is free. After all, ego is only a product of ones physical appearance including thinking and how that fits to environment just happened to be around. One step deeper is to define concepts of ego strenght and spirit strenght. New Testament describes via Jesus those inverse laws of society, for example that ego weakness is spirit strenght and ego strenght is spirit weakness. Thinking about human life span, the weakest ego point can be found at the moment of death, wher the spirit should be at strongest. Almost as if ” the Force” was with You.

    But there is no dark side of the Force, maybe just one local maximum point of ego in lifespan where spirit was in minimum, like Tshingis Khan riding to a village with his invinsible army. Usually nothing good results. The original sin, I’m the strongest, I’m the law, I’m the god.

  4. DJ C, Malachi Martin, an Irish Catholic priest, Secretary of State at the Vatican, Gordon’s friend, exorcist, very published, once or maybe more than once said: “He was not sure there was a God, but he was certain there was a devil.” His death, in 1999 was under mysterious circumstances.

  5. This the so called ” Christian” mentality serves to feed the pockets of the big Pharma and cronies.
    It is a whole win win situation: The FDA allows to use toxins in our food, water, air so we become sick, Then the pharma comes in and all the medical profession earning bill!ions ! This is part of the IN-HUMAN’S rights campaign. Greed is the name of the game and the ELITE does NOT want a quick and cheap solution to a cure. There are many possible cures the one below as an example.
    https://www.google.co.uk/search?source=hp&ei=PshgW6jZIsXQwQK6oK7oDw&q=dr+rife+cancer+cure&oq=Dr+Rife&gs_l=psy-ab.1.2.0l10.46912658.46915238.0.46920467.7.7.0.0.0.0.373.1091.0j5j0j1.6.0….0…1c.1.64.psy-ab..1.6.1080….0.zIvijl6xknc

  6. One of the most ridiculous dogmas of the religious, is if you don’t follow their rules, and don’t buy their story, then you are an atheist. That is ridiculous and childish.

  7. “Those are not simple issues, I must admit and anyone who thinks they are clear cut, better go back an reflect a little.”

    Indeed , I agree, lets start with an honest look at whether or not, the day a person is born, has any correlation with their personality, product and destiny. If it is proven, that the day of birth enables correlations of any kind, then conception becomes mute. btw, you sound more Catholic by the day. That issue should be looked into as well. Academia has prevented, along with religion, an honest examination of life and date of birth. while at the same time, conducting experiments and collecting data in secret. Simply watch the documentary “Three Identical strangers”. But those who study do not need it. The public does it seems.

  8. Kahlid, First of all I am sorry for your loss of your father. Someone marooned on an island with no fresh water, no rain, no food, and apparently the inability to fish would die from starvation. He or she would look for water and food in order to stay alive. The focus here was that the on purpose withdrawal of fluids and food are used as a way to cause death. The person on the island would be very hungry, very thirsty and I would suppose miserable. The person on this island did not choose this way to die, but eventual death would be inevitable. The issue with the use of VSED is that there has to be other ways to hasten death, such as with the euthanasia of an animal. Quick death would be a positive issue. This is a very muddy issue considering humanity’s various thoughts regarding religious practices, thoughts on suicide (which is really what VSED represents), etc.

  9. My oldest brother died a couple months ago from the results of metastasized lung cancer. He spent the last week or so in Hospice waiting to die no doubt drugged into near death itself.
    The religious right are all b.s. They can do what ever they please with them selves, I could care less but they have no business or right to inflict their own personal views on the rest of us.. It’s too bad there wasn’t an 11th Commandment: Thou shall keep thy religion to thyself.
    The biggest b.s. response you get from these retarded idiots is” all life is sacred” so I’d like for them to explain why they believe it’s ok to slaughter millions of innocent people in the middle east. Doesn’t sound like all life being sacred to me, sounds like some lives are more sacred than others. Especially if they believe in the same god but only in a slightly different manner,which provides the perfect excuse for these American xtian imbeciles to approve of murder.

    • JohnZ, I am very sorry about your brother and a life belongs to the person living it….plain and simple.

  10. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xvh-D2hD3lU
    Jeff Sessions Announces New Religious Liberty Task Force | NBC News
    The melding of religion and state and health care, is unacceptable. Nobody involved will never forget the mantra of Mother teresa, who withheld pain meds from the sick and dying while making millions for the church. See, the churches make a lot of money by controlling the pathway to death. In agony, the widow is more fearful and inclined to reach out to do “the right thing by god” as they pass and wonder if they have been good as they embrace the fear of the unknowing. The carnival clown will be right by her side, holding her hand and saying prayers and signing the papers. They say suffering is good for the soul, except when it;’s their turn.

    • This type of guilt based consciousness was very apparent in the recent tragic case of the grandfather who lost his wife and two grandchildren in the fires of California. He said, as he was grieving, “What have I done wrong ?” and this is very harmful to the passing. There should be no guilt, no worries, and passing should be gentle.
      It does not have to be a horrible process. There are some very naturally gifted people working in hospice, and the difference is very noticeable to those who are not. While, “what more could I have done” is a natural sentiment and easier to council, “what have I done wrong’ is a construct of callous ignorance and selfish perpetuation of belief.

    • Several years ago, during the Bush 2 administration there was a push in congress to pas the Religious Freedom Act which was a bull s*** act to allow other to inflict their religion on others.
      This Religious Liberty task Force sound like another version. With Jethro Sessions on board it sounds very dangerous and of course unconstitutional a direct violation of church and state but that never stopped religious extremism. More than likely they are also xtian zionists.
      As for Mother Theresa, or as Christopher Hitchens labeled her ” Hell’s Angel” in his expose of that fraud.

    • Yea, this is Sessions baby. This is why he wanted the job. This is why he excused himself from the Russia probe. They will take over hospitals and schools, and your health care will be limited to what evangelicals see as appropriate. It is heading for the Handmaids Tale.
      Also on their bucket list, is to install laws that equalize racism with anti-religious sentiment, so that either the hate crime standards are dropped, or they are applicable to religion as well.
      They also want to maintain the christian right premise, that women belong to their husbands as property.
      He will use the justice department to force cases to the Supreme Court, where they just stacked it.

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